Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members. So you usually just smile and say something like, "They're good. It's fine," and then leave the room immediately because you cannot answer those follow-up questions. Wanting to know if they're sleeping with anyone else but not wanting to be "that girl." If anything, I should ask from an STD standpoint because even though we're using protection, it would be good to know. Neil." Not "my boyfriend, Neil," not "my friend, Neil," because neither of those is true. Carrying your stuff around with you like a sex Sherpa because you don't know if you can leave stuff at their place or not. Or if I am a hookup, I'm a hookup who sends really spot-on GIFs. Having no idea if you two have a standing date on Fridays or if that's more of a last-minute, if-neither-of-you-has-other-plans situation. Or we might be people who might be together one day, which is also cool ... Listen, Jeremy, I just want to know if at some point, you want to get dinner like people who care about each other because it's been five months, which means we have to at least care about each other on some level. Having your friends ask you what's going on with "you and that guy" and you have no idea what to tell them. Introducing them to your friends and realizing, "Oh shit, I have to define this or else he's just ... We are friends who hook up and I am fine with that. Or maybe I should just stop doing this all together because I have feelings now and that was not the plan. Trying to maintain the delicate line between texting too much and too little so as not to seem clingy, but also not let things fizzle out. That's not, like, girlfriend-y, but at least we're talking regularly so it's not like I'm purely a hookup. I need to call them this weekend and just be honest already. Trying to finally have The Talk about what you guys mean to each other, without making it sound like you want to get married in July off the coast of Nantucket and also here's the scrapbook of how our wedding will look.
Not knowing if this is even going anywhere because it's definitely not "something," but it's also not "nothing." So some part of you is like, "This is so cool. Plus, it's totally fine if they're sleeping with someone else because I'm sleeping with someone else too. Every time I'd go see the last person this happened with, I always packed a kit like I was going sex camping. Toothbrush, underwear, vitamins, wallet, keys, and a compass in case I get lost because their apartment has so many doors and none of them are an exit. Wanting to ask their roommates what they think you are, but also realizing that makes you sound nuts. Do I ask them what we're doing Friday or will that answer be, "Nothing, yo, I'm not your boyfriend"? No, I know we don't have a relationship-relationship but we have a relationship to each other.There are several stages to friendly relationships.To create a friendly relationship between two Sims, have them do actions such as 'Be Nice', 'Bro Hug', 'Be Funny' or 'Chest Bump'.After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.Determining If You Should Date Making Your Move Cementing your Relationship Community Q&A When your feelings are more passionate and stronger than what you'd expect from a normal friendship, it might be time to take things to the next level.