For our in-depth analysis of the cougar phenomenon, read on...There’s been an enormous amount of media coverage centred on older women dating younger men over the last decade.On behalf of other younger men, with humility and boldness, we plead with our older brothers for five things. Young men need to hear, “Everything’s going to be okay.” Most days we’re pretty sure our lives are an utter failure, a disaster zone even. You pray, “From my youth you have taught me,” and, “Even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come” (Psalm –18).Young men are often asking of older men, “Do you care about me? ” We can watch You Tube videos for advice, wisdom, and inspiration for life’s complexities. Now, for every gray hair, we want one story of God’s faithfulness, one lesson from years of learning God and his world. Was there a time when you had that same life experience? We need to hear, “God is faithful in that situation, because I’ve seen it — I have involved in this tragic world — in a young man’s tragic life — because sometimes we’re not so sure.
With 100% verified profiles and members using our premium service to look for long-lasting love, our site has become the go-to destination for finding a serious romance with a younger partner safely and securely.He was my first boyfriend who wasn't born within five years before or after me.When we broke up several months later, I figured I'd return to my regularly scheduled age group, but most of the guys who came after him, both the serious romances and the casual flings (Matias, Marcelo, Alejandro and Gonzalo in Buenos Aires, Jayden in Australia, David in Bangkok), were in their twenties.We have to pass the torch somehow, but so many of the bridges have been burnt. Older men, by God’s design and grace, there are things we will get from you and no one else.Especially those of us without dads, or Christian dads, or engaged and intentional Christian dads.